I had a bad dream today as I was taking a nap. I saw a group of boys and a couple of girls in a backyard. They were all circled up. I saw some of the boys laughing. I could barely see what was happening. I saw a girl in the middle as she was being backed up against the house by the crowd. She had a scared look on her face. The boys were touching on her and forcing themselves on her. She couldn't escape. I wanted to get out of this dream but it was difficult. I was trying to scream for them to stop but they didn't hear me. They raped her, several of them. Not all of them, some just watched and laughed even the other female that was there. I woke up in a panic and with a bad headache. The scream that only I could hear woke me up. I can't believe they did this to her. She didn't deserve that. I am sitting in here in tears and hoping that this is really just a dream and didn't really happen. It felt real. I knew that girls face. I truly believe that when she left home that day to hang with "friends", she didn't know her life would be changed forever.
Fellas, that girl was somebody's sister. She was a child's mother. A womans daughter. Before you touch another woman the wrong way take a moment and see your moma being handled in this way. Your baby sister whom you love with all your heart, try seeing her being put in a disrespectful position. Keep your filthy hands off that mans daughter. He adores his child. Imagine your little girl being raped, called names, being abused by the hands of another man. You would want to kill him.
And was it funny? They laughed as they took turns on her. I woke up angry and crying and screaming what could have been this girls name.
Although I pray this was just a dream and didn't happen to anyone I know, this very act happens all the time to somebodys daughter. Some of them give it up and some are forced. Either way they need to be assured that they are loved and worthy of respect. Hug your daughter today, tell her daily that you love her. Turn off the tv tonight and just talk. Take a day off from work and just be with her. Tell her she is beautiful and precious. Listen to her without making facial expressions. Show her scriptures in the bible that describes the qualities of an exceptional woman. Show her affection and love. Assure her that she is the apple of your eye. If you don't she will seek it elsewhere. Ask me how I know.
One last thing, in my dream I heard the boys that didn't touch the girl whispering to each other that one of the boys raping the girl had hiv/aids. Somebodys daughter, sister, mom, cousin, aunt, friend, and church member brought home a deadly disease and died because somebody's boy didn't understand his worth. Now somebody's sister at home trying to take a nap instead having bad dreams, screaming and crying in her sleep. To the boys and girl that were there, you grin you in. Sin is allowed to triumph when good folks do nothing. You are guilty by association.
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Is this what to someome we know. We will really never know how she fgot aids. But I do know that she was mistreated by someone that had Aids. And now I am in pain because her laughter is gone. Aids has cheated us out of a very special person and someone who knew they had it is walking around hurting someone else family. Taking their mother, daughter or sister away because of their evil ways. I hope this was only a dream. I pray that was not happening to anyone. I pray that someone who is behaving ina reckless manner will read this and understand the damage they can cuze to another.
ReplyDeleteSo father,let this be a wake up call to aomeone and a healing process for another.
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